i remember once i was at a temp job. i was in my 20s. i was a runner at this point but just a slow one. it was before we knew about polarised training and how important squats and deadlifts are. anyway, two older women were talking. and i’m not being cheeky or judgemental, but they weren’t in good shape. less good than me, a skinny but not very toned slow runner.

anyway, on says to the other, ‘you know what’s the sexiest bit on a man?’

‘six pack?’ the other woman guesses.

‘no, the v bit sort of below the six pack.’

i’m wasn’t in bad shape when i was 24. slim and pretty active, daily exercise. but it was nice to be made to feel inadequate like that.

what do you find sexy on a man?